This is the part of the journey where things get real real. RSVPs are coming in (cue the group chat reactions), timelines are locking in, and the big day is just around the corner. You’re not just planning anymore – you’re producing an experience.
Confirm RSVP numbers
- Track down those last few guests who haven’t replied. It’s totally normal to follow up!
- Update your caterer and venue with a more accurate headcount.
Finalize your timeline
- Work with your planner or coordinator to finalize your timeline down to the minute.
- Share with all vendors and VIPs (MOH, Best Man, parents, etc.)
Confirm vendor logistics
- Share venue details, setup/breakdown times, and contact info with vendors.
- Confirm music cues, first dance songs, and any special requests with DJ/band.
Assemble welcome bags or favors
- Whether it’s mini candles, snacks, or handwritten notes – make sure you have everything ready to pack.
Beauty prep gets serious
- Schedule waxing, facials, hair color appointments.
- Break in your wedding shoes around the house (trust me).
Rehearsal & ceremony details
- Confirm your rehearsal dinner guest list and reservations.
- Finalize ceremony script with your officiant.
Sprinkle-in extras:
- Create a day-of emergency kit: fashion tape, blotting paper, mini sewing kit.
- Make a packing list for your wedding weekend (especially if you’re traveling).
- Confirm transportation needs: getting ready suite to venue, venue to after-party.
What couples often skip At This Stage (but shouldn’t):
- Not assigning someone to be your day-of go-to (besides your planner) for small tasks.
- Forgetting to prep cash tips and thank-you notes for vendors.
- Waiting too long to pack or prep your overnight bag.
Next up: Final Month – it’s all about timelines, glam prep, and tying up the pretty little details.
