Okay, the Pinterest board has been brewing, your vision is starting to crystallize – and now it’s time to bring that dream to life! This is the month where things start to feel real in the best way. Vendors get booked, your dress journey begins, and maybe, just maybe, you sneak in your first cake tasting. (Highly recommend.) Here’s what to check off this month:
Book your dream team
- Photographer/videographer: These vendors book up fast, especially the good ones. If their vibe matches yours and they make you feel comfortable, lock them in.
- Venue & key vendors: Finalize your ceremony and reception location if you haven’t yet, and book your caterer, florist, entertainment, and rentals.
Start Thinking About Your Dress
- Time to start shopping! Bring your crew, your moodboard, and an open mind. (Sometimes the dress surprises you.)
Take your engagement photos
- Great for save-the-dates, your website, and honestly, just a really fun, low-stress memory to make together.
Save the Dates
- Design and order your save-the-dates. You’ll want to send these out in a couple of months, especially for destination weddings.
Plan your honeymoon
- Dream big, research, and if you’re planning something international, this is a great time to get ahead on booking flights and accommodations.
Start your wedding website or registry
- A great way to keep everyone in the loop – and drop those honeymoon fund hints early. Keep it simple and on-brand with your vibe.
Sprinkle-in extras:
- Start pinning ideas for your cake tasting or dessert table.
- Browse vow books, ring boxes, and signage for small details that feel personal.
- Think about your wedding scent – candles, perfumes, or essential oils that can create a memory-linked experience.
What couples often skip At This Stage (but shouldn’t):
- Waiting too long to book vendors you really want – photographers, planners, and venues can disappear fast.
- Not creating a realistic guest list early – it affects venue size, catering, and even your budget breakdown.
- Not creating a realistic guest list early — it affects venue size, catering, and even your budget breakdown.
Next up: 8 Months Out – your wardrobe era begins (yes, dress appointments count as core memories).
